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Social Harassment -Turns into mental violence (Let them rise too)

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Just before writing this article ,I went to my sister's room to take my mobile charger...when I was about to step in her room my sister asked" Do you need anything ? "I answered (confusingly) "No,why did you ask?" She replied " You came like you are coming to achieve something and I thought I can help you in this so I asked..". I took my mobile charger and came out from her room and started to think that "Was I really walking this much impressive, so one can understand it by my walking style that I am up to something?"

Suddenly the thought of Mahatma Gandhi came into my mind that he was may be nothing more then a lawyer or in some books there is a term Barrister. It would be impossible for him to make a revolution but his many qualities had helped him in doing so and two of them was his vision and his words.....

Hitlar was famous for his words, he made a whole army... Swami Vivekanand had made a name of India in chicago by his words. I am also writing some words, may be they can work like their words....

In India every city has in itself  another India. There are many countries in one country. As you may have seen your nearby places like posh colonies, middle class colonies, small mohallas and a backward area too,which together makes a very interesting unit.There are different types of people in every area but in some aspects they are same and one of these aspects ..I am gonna describe you here ...

One day I was going to my friend's home and in the middle of my  way I saw a girl, she was hardly 10 or 12 years old and she was wearing a beautiful white coloured frock, it was feathery ,shiny and with her matching hair band, she was looking very pretty but what was the question in my mind that why is she wearing a lagging under her frock? First I thought that may be sometimes its kid's mood that they want to wear anything so it could be like this or it can also be possible that she had a problem or scars ...so her mother didn't allow her to show her legs. When I passed that girl I saw a boy, he was wearing shorts and T-shirt and he was about 16 years old atleast...

Sometimes a question used to came into my mind that when it was ancient time did men know about clothes from the beginning? I read it in books and the answer I get is "No." They didn't know that clothing came according to their needs and civilization helped in growing it.

So we are still civilized and are growing in every way but clothing is still a barrier between rich and poor, educated and non- educated or less educated because today it is not according to their needs but according to their mindset.The same thing I used to notice is the thinking....

Neither wealth nor reputation is the key of a happy and great civilization or social world but it is "Thinking". Thinking is nothing but a simple biological process happening in our pea sized brain everyday, every second.We can't stop to think but we can Check what we are thinking and having a fully developed brain we can resolve it.

I have noticed that when a girl came out from her house in shorts, the neighbours starts to stare her and this starring process can continue till she become uncomfortable or sometimes even after it, this is very common in big cities as well as in small towns.

Have you ever seen a girl adjusting her step in every foot of her walk, adjusting her top....think about it.....

The basic structure of every human is same so why only a boy can show off his knees and a girl can't? What she wears? How she walks? It is completely her right. We live in a democratic country and none can devide or pressure her for their clothes atleast. I know that we have to follow our tradition but what I think is that tradition teaches us how to be unite not to divide...

It is a myth in Indian wives that to cover their head with her saare during any traditional work is necessary and is culture. I heartly respect this thing but what my tiny, little head used to think is that they just need to cover their head with a scarf also and this is not only for house wives of high society but for all....

It is written in Bhagawad Gita that " Man is made by his belief . As he believes, so he is." It means our belif made us and our thinking made our belief so we have to think better to make us better.

Actually in this men dominant world not even the men are safe from this thinking, they are also hunted but in a different way like murder of their dreams ....it is now become an old problem with girls and fortunately I can say that in this aspect we are really working on it but still that worm of narrow thinking always comes in their way of success.We used to say that" The strike of a knife is better than pointed and wounding words." I have seen many talented boys adjusting with their dreams. The main motive of their born wish is that they'll bear the responsibility of their family at any cost ...and I also like it but not at the cost of their dreams ...

I believe in a thing that "When he/she loves their work, he/she can break the limits of success and knowledge. You just need to change your vision for everyone whether you have a son or a daughter.

When you'll keep rolling your hands in mud what you'll get are only dirty hands, don't let your thinking become an infectious disease or become a carrier of it, keep your mind healthy and make a place for new ideas otherwise this habit of judging a girl's character by her clothes will definitely turn into social harassment and who knows when it will be turn into mental violence and violence never creates it just destroys ....

I wrote what I feel right ..may be my words can make a difference ..I don't want a revolution but just a cure for this new disease which is contaminating everyone's head slowly. I hope every reader of mine will privileged it with their attention and can make a new thinking.

 - Jhalak



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